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Dear Duana, I’ve had a secret lover for over a year—secret, because he’s 25 years older and my boss! I know it can’t work but I don’t know what to do! Dear Duana, I’m secretly in love with my roommate—secretly, because I’m gay and he’s straight and getting married! This is driving me crazy! What do I do?
Dear Duana, My fear of not being able to satisfy my wife is causing problems with my erections. I am in my mid-forties and have been with my wife for 16 years now. Very early on in the relationship I read something in a journal of hers I wish I could wipe from my memory banks regarding my penis size.
Share Article Print Article Permalink tagged Clitoris, Male Female Differences, Masturbation, Penis, Sexuality, human sexuality Wise Readers, men bombard me with letters that essentially say, “My size is [insert normal dimensions here], and I am scared I cannot satisfy [my wife/lover/anyone, ever].” The underlying questions are always the same: Can I satisfy a woman? Am I Enough? Having looked at these questions from every angle, I can give you a confident answer. But first you need to shift the focus from your sex organs to hers…
Share Article Print Article Permalink tagged Clitoris, Male Female Differences, Penis, Sexuality, human sexuality, vagina, vulva Wise Readers, Should sixth-graders even be allowed to attend dances? Won’t it lead to…sex? What are the risk factors for early sex, anyway—and what can you do to prevent that at your house? Does the community have to go along, or can you go it alone? Read on!
Share Article Print Article Permalink tagged Dating, Parenting, Sexuality, human sexuality Mom! You know that boy who waves to me all the time and talks to me at my locker? He asked me to the dance today, and the dance is still two weeks off! I said yes! But I think I want to go with friends to the next one. How would I say no?