There Must Be Four Ways To Leave Your Lover (Wise Readers sound off about leaving that lover you just can’t quit)

Wise Readers, I asked, you answered. What’s the best cure for an old love? Is it: a new love; focusing on the former lover’s flaws; looking at your own patterns of partner-picking? How do people Change? And…are some Addictions to love unbreakable? Read on!

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Addicted To Love: What to do when you know a relationship needs to end, but you just can't let go

Dear Duana, I’ve had a secret lover for over a year—secret, because he’s 25 years older and my boss! I know it can’t work but I don’t know what to do! Dear Duana, I’m secretly in love with my roommate—secretly, because I’m gay and he’s straight and getting married! This is driving me crazy! What do I do?

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Never Belittle A Penis (Plus: Clitoris Q&A)

Dear Duana, My fear of not being able to satisfy my wife is causing problems with my erections. I am in my mid-forties and have been with my wife for 16 years now. Very early on in the relationship I read something in a journal of hers I wish I could wipe from my memory banks regarding my penis size.

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Meet The Clitoris: Or, how to stop worrying and start loving

Wise Readers, men bombard me with letters that essentially say, “My size is [insert normal dimensions here], and I am scared I cannot satisfy [my wife/lover/anyone, ever].” The underlying questions are always the same: Can I satisfy a woman? Am I Enough? Having looked at these questions from every angle, I can give you a confident answer. But first you need to shift the focus from your sex organs to hers…

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Q&A from "The How To Say No Primer"

Wise Readers, Should sixth-graders even be allowed to attend dances? Won’t it lead to…sex? What are the risk factors for early sex, anyway—and what can you do to prevent that at your house? Does the community have to go along, or can you go it alone? Read on!

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