Pursuit, Part II: Whether and when to chase after Ms. Could Be Right

Wise Readers, is it time to give up? Or pursue with all you are? How does pursuit help men—not just women—know whether this is the right relationship? Here, some anguished men, and my attempts at answers. Any other suggestions? You know what to do: Read on!

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The Art Of Pursuit: How and why to chase Ms. Could Be Right

Dear Duana, Lanie and I had been out a few times when I saw her out with another guy….I have never felt this way about anyone before. If she’s at all interested, I want to make this work, but I can’t tell how she feels, and I don’t want to be a stalker. I’m confused and need your direction badly. Dear Kip, Sometimes, it seems like the difference between a stalker and a boyfriend is whether the woman wants the attention. You want to respect Lanie’s wishes; but is she giving you the go ahead, or the go away?

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When The Married Aren't Making Love (Q&A from "SEX: Getting It, Losing It, Loving It")

Wise Readers, When couples have less sex, is it because of their age—or their relationship’s? Are couples having more sex now than in past decades—or less? Single folks are having less sex than The Married and The Cohabiting…but why? And what if you’re in a low/no-sex marriage?

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Q&A from "How Big A Ring?"

Wise Readers, what’s the most creative way you can dream up to solve The Ring problem(s)—problems such as dealing with other people’s reactions to the absence of a Ring, figuring out whether or not to surprise the bride-to-be with a Ring at the proposal, or dealing with one’s own feelings about what/when to buy? Read on!

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How Big A Ring? (+ Q&A from Wedding Date)

Dear Duana, I am in a monogomous relationship with a woman that I love very much, and she me….I would like to propose to her soon, like around the holidays, and do it in a very romantic fashion. The problem is this: there is no way that I can currently afford to buy a diamond engagement ring. (This is where I need help).

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