Entries in Attachment Style (23)

Wednesday
Apr042012

Q&A from "ATTACHMENT STYLES"

Wise Readers, Finding someone just like you is usually a good bet for a great match. But when should you avoid picking a mate with your same attachment style? What styles tend to wind up (happily) together? What style partner should you pick if you yourself are Insecurely attached? And how can you change your sweetie’s style? Read on!

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Tuesday
Mar272012

ATTACHMENT STYLES: Overcoming Fear, Embracing Intimacy~At Last  

Dear Duana,I was raised by a perfectionist mother and a loving father who traveled a great deal. Our extended family was thousands of miles away…I learned that if you want something done right, do it yourself…My ex-husband often scared me because it felt like he wanted to merge completely with me. I prefer to have some separateness. My current boyfriend complains that I don’t trust him enough to let him take care of me. How do I learn this skill that affects my life so much?

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Wednesday
Mar212012

Q&A from "Long Distance Relationships" 

Wise Readers, Aren’t Viv and Clark too young to have a solid marriage anyway? If you’re in a LDR, how can you max your chances for it to work out? Why is sacrifice a dirty word? And what are The 4 Types of people who initiate a relationship that’s long distance from the start? Read on!

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Wednesday
Mar142012

Folk Wisdom: How do you feel about getting close to others? 

Wise Readers, This week and next, I’m asking you to participate in a survey that will form the basis for an upcoming LoveScience article about people’s feelings towards getting emotionally close and interdependent with others. The questionnaire is just 6 items long and can be found at this link: http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/DDHTB6Y

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Tuesday
Sep272011

Q&A from "Conquering Confusion: He loves her? He loves her not."

Wise Readers, Why, oh why, would a man introduce a woman to his parents—without meaning Commitment by it? If that’s not a good sign of Commitment, what is? If Commitmentphobes don’t want commitment, why don’t they just say so? And why does Time move so differently for men and women? Read on!

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