The Woman's Guide To Finding Love At Midlife

If you’re seeking a man and you’re over age 40, this is for you!

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Why NOT to look up that old flame on Facebook (or, how to wreck a perfectly good marriage)

You’re married. You’re happy. What could be the harm of friending your old flame?

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Lonely? Standards too high? Q&A from "How Not To Settle"

Wise Readers, When to hold ‘em, when to fold ‘em? During dating, that can become The Question. Why is starting with love beginning backwards—and what can making a Traits For A Mate List do for you? What happened to Readers who stuck by their standards in the past—and those who didn’t? What if you know what your Standards are, but you’re having a tough time sticking to them? Why do people resist making The List? And how detailed should it be? What about complementary traits—don’t opposites attract, too? Read on!

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WHEN LOVE STINKS: Smell, The Pill, Marriage, and Online Dating

“I recently got off The Pill, and suddenly cannot tolerate the way my husband smells.” “I fell in love with someone online, and then when we met in person, he (not his cologne—he) smelled wrong.” Yes, scent is a deal-maker or deal-breaker for many women. So much so, “He just smells wrong” is a common marital therapy complaint from women, and smell trumps *all* other senses—including sight, sound and touch— in women’s decision to have sex with a particular guy. What’s wrong with these women—and maybe, you? As it happens, nothing…

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Q&A from “Phishing With The (Inter) Net: Baiting the hook”

Wise Readers, Curb/curve appeal: Online, could it be advantageous to post pix that look somewhat less hot than The Real You? Why is the Pool deeper at paid-subscription than free dating sites? Why is it okay—desirable, even—for men to post photos of themselves with their kids…but works the opposite for women seeking men? And when and how should children be mentioned? Read on!

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