Entries in Male Female Differences (148)

Wednesday
May272015

Science Backed Dating Skills Review

 

This week we’re looking at love and commitment. We’re going to do it from as practical a perspective as possible. We’re looking at it from a science perspective and some practical applications of that science. We’re answering questions such as:

What is love and commitment?

Do you really want it?

Is it something that is going to fit for you?

How do you actually go about strategically and sensibly looking for love and commitment?

How do you approach it?

How do you keep it once you’ve found it?

Those are big questions. I think there are a lot of questions there that don’t typically get answered, even if you look in relationship books and the types of books that cover these subjects. They don’t normally look at it from a really practical action-taking perspective. Today, we have on the show Duana Welch. We brought her on the show because she’s written a book that is focused on being really practical about this. It’s based around a social and evolutionary science perspective. The book is called: Love Factually: 10 Proven Steps from I Wish to I Do. Duana has a PhD, teaching psychology at Austin, Texas universities. She’s also a Psychology Today columnist.

Coming back to her book, David M. Buss, the renowned psychologist, said this of Duana’s book: “Love Factually is a great book anchored in solid science. It brims with practical advice in the form of concrete actions everyone can take to improve their love lives. If you plan to read one book to improve your mating life, this is the one to read.”

That’s a pretty big quote from a very well known evolutionary psychologist. So it’s really a test to the practicality of this book, which as I say isn’t typical. We’ll be getting into these practical details in a moment.

Wednesday
May062015

10 Times Women Say Yes But We Shouldn't

This week the Love Scientist weighs in on blogger and author Phoebe Fox’s post about times when No would be best-said~new at the Huffington Post:

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/phoebe-fox/10-times-women-say-yes-when-we-should-say-no_b_7196880.html?fb_action_ids=10153338092739170&fb_action_types=og.shares

Thursday
Apr162015

Ready For Friendship With Your Ex? Here's How To Tell

Wise Readers,

How can you tell whether you are or aren’t ready to be friends with your ex?  NEW blog post at eHarmony today: 

http://www.eharmony.com/dating-advice/relationships/how-to-tell-if-you-are-really-ready-to-be-friends-with-the-ex/#.VS_606aRPzJ

Cheers,

Duana

Thursday
Apr162015

When Women Use Jealousy: Surprising benefits of rousing the green-eyed monster

Wise Readers,

Common sense says jealousy always backfires.  But in this case, common sense is wrong!  New post at Psychology Today:

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/love-proof/201504/when-women-use-jealousy

Cheers,

Duana

Wednesday
Jan282015

The Hidden Reason She Wants Him To Pay For Dinner

Wise Readers,

Many women want the guy to buy dinner~and many feel awkward about wanting that.  Where does this desire come from, and why does it actually work to the advantage of long-term relationships for both sexes?  

Read on at this guest piece at eHarmony: http://www.eharmony.com/dating-advice/dating-advice-for-you/why-guys-should-pay-for-dinner/#.VMkEe1qRM5R

Cheers,

Duana