Dating at Midlife, free talk happening this Thursday

Wise Readers,

If you’re going to be local to Eugene/Springfield this Thursday at 2:30 p.m., come by and scope my talk/mini-class on Dating at Midlife—an evidence-based approach. It’s free and open to the public. See you then!



Love Factually Single Parent Survey Results

LF SINGLE PARENT SURVEY RESULTS: Thank you, everyone who took/shared the Love Factually Single Parent survey. Your generous responses have helped shape the plan for the upcoming book! Here are the results, by the numbers:

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Want more love? Send better signals 

A package arrived—one I’d long awaited, the third edition of the book that totally changed my love life, from the evolutionary scientist whose work I most admire and respect. The book is The Evolution of Desire, and the author is Dr. David Buss. The Washington Post called the first edition “a drop-dead shocker,” and it still is. Here’s my review:

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Four Questions That Tell You It's Time To Call It Quits

Wise Readers,

When it’s needed, breaking up is harder to do than anything except for not breaking up.  But how do you know it’s time?  Here are four questions (okay, five) that make your choice crystal-clear in my new article for Plenty of Fish:




Call In With Your Relationship Questions: Live tonight 2/8/17

Live at 7:40 p.m. EST TODAY: I’m at the Let’s Face It radio program discussing love, science, and whatever you want to call in about!