Q&A from "How To Break Up" (it doesn't have to be that hard to do)

Wise Readers, if breaking up should be done in person…why do so many people do it remotely (or not at all)? It’s about the payoff… Read on!

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How To Break Up: It doesn't have to be that hard to do

Breaking up: there must be 50 ways to leave your lover. Here’s one that’s easy~or at least, easier.

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Should a request for cohabitation be a deal-breaker? (Q&A from "Freedom Vs. Forever")

Wise Readers, if a man invites a woman to move in—or asks her to move in with hopes of an engagement a year off—, is that itself a sign he *isn’t* The One? Read on!

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Freedom Vs. Forever: Why marriage isn’t just a piece of paper, and cohabiting isn’t marriage-lite

Dear Duana, I think I’ve met The One. Aaron has asked me to move in with him, in another city, and said then he’ll propose in a year…I have a five-year-old daughter and a job, but for Mr. Right, we’ll move. I read your articles about cohabitation, though, and want to know what you’ve got against living together? Dear Anna,indeed, I’ve got something against living together. Because even though cohabitation is extremely common, research has something against it—for all but two sorts of couples:

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Why Arranged Marriages Work--and when they don't (Q&A for Head Vs. Heart)

Wise Readers, If you let someone else arrange your marriage, shouldn’t you watch out for their motives? Why won’t arranged marriage work in non-arranged-marriage cultures? And what’s the downside of arranged marriage? Read on!

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