Q&A from “Vibrator Dependence"

Wise Readers: Men chimed in from last week’s vibe column: Is there a certain-size vibrator that can make up for a small penis? Is there a wattage that will desensitize the clitoris and/or create vibrator dependence? What about a frequency of vibrator use? Do older women make better lovers—or at least tell their partners more about what turns them on? Read on!

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Vibrator Dependence: Can using a vibrator make it harder to orgasm with a real partner?

Dear Duana, I’ve been single for a few months, and my vibrator and I have gotten rather close. I’m starting to worry I won’t know how to respond to a flesh-and-blood guy. Is there such a thing as vibrator dependence? If so, how do I deal with it? Erica Dear Erica, I’ll admit it, when I first read your letter, I thought: How close? Do you call out Oh My Vibrator! at crucial moments? Is one of its designated speeds Who Needs A Man? And most ominous of all: Have you chipped a tooth? Seriously, let’s get a grip on the issue.

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