Love Science

None of my professors ever looked like that. ;-)

On a whim, I spent the entire afternoon today reading every Love Science article ever written, and I am now in the best of moods. You handle the embarrassing subject of S-E-X so well, that the reader feels comfortable (not guilty) that they are voraciously reading something on, OMG,...sex. Many people, of all ages, seek my advice in this area; however, after reading your articles today...well...it has become apparent that I definitely have a lot to learn on this topic. Woohoo!!!! I'll be a straight-A student!

Dr. Duana, you have a deliciously devilish sense of humor, while at the same time managing to have a factual, direct, and witty writing style. I am an avid reader, and you are among the best authors I have ever had the pleasure of reading. Without question. I'm eagerly anticipating every new article, and forwarding links to my entire network.

Your writing is fresh, thoughtful, and enlightening; not an easy feat for a topic that has been discussed time and again- Brava!

Current and much needed insight. Healing effect. Thank you Dr. Welch for writing what really matters.

Love Science is just a brilliant Ann Landers!

I LOVE this site. But also want to say that in my opinion only, some women complicate things when it comes to guys. We (MOST MEN WHO ARE REAL MEN) are simple creatures with few needs, Visually driven the two things we require so you could get everything you want is BEER and ATTENTION ( THE WAY WE WANT IT) with just these two simple things you could have the world on a platter. Now if the guy does not drink beer well then I'm sure he has another Need as simple as that to suffice. But as you can see we dont complicate things. When we are hungry we eat, lonely we conjugate into groups and talk, when thirsty we drink. SO SIMPLE..............

Duana ~ I love "Love Science!" You are able to so clearly communicate with humor on compelling matters of the heart while at the same time, incorporating the science behind it all. I also love the idea suggested by one of your readers that YouTube should be in your future!

Love Science is an unrivaled relationship advice column that is filtered through a social psych lens. Dr. Welch answers questions in a way that is easy to understand and apply to your own situation. You can tell right away that relationship psychology is not only her job, it is her passion. For those of you serious about your relationships, put down that trashy magazine and get some real advice! Love Science is completely fact-based and, in that way, it is the most candid and unbiased relationship advice you can get. I highly recommend it!

I appreciate immeasurably the focus and scope of your articles, Duana. You are relevant and express ideas in a clear, fresh way. I love your articles so much that I print them and reread them again and again in order to get a different perspective each time through. Kudos!!! Your lovely photo reflects what a beautiful face you have to match your stunning intellect. Thank you for being such an inspiration to me and others.

Duana, Wow - this is amazing. Thank you for creating such a needed website that will be able to help so many people. I cannot think of a better person to do this. You have such compassion and a true desire and knowledge to help others. You are one in a million, and I wish you continued success. I am a fan of you and now your Love Science!

I've enjoyed reading every one of your columns, Duana - and found something to take away from each one! I love your writing style, also. It's witty, engaging and entertaining. Keep up the good work - you are, undoubtedly, headed for bigger things!

I first met Duana as her client several years ago, and she has now become one of my most trusted and valued friends, probably for the same reasons that her column is so spectacular. Duana infuses herself into her Love Science column, and that quality is what makes the grounded, practical, science-based advice so special and different from other love advice columnists out there. Duana is a giving, genuine, funny woman that tells you how she sees it...and she'll make her case with scientific data, human psychological tendencies and warm, helpful advice delivered with a humorous punch. When I read these columns, I so easily identify with the scenarios she's addressing, and the beautiful thing is that I can go to my husband, say "hey, here's what we're doing wrong!" and we can laugh about it while still recognizing where there is room for improvement. Duana's columns provide an easy (and often humorous) opportunity for couples and individuals to recognize where there is room for improvement without being on the defensive about what they have done "wrong." Duana, I sense wonderful things coming out of this column, and to all of Duana's new fans reading this column for the first time, you've found a gem of a resource!

Wow! Finally a column with bite in its advice! By offering up the 'why' behind the 'what,' these situations and strategies for handling them are much clearer to me. The reason I can't stand most advice columns and shows is they seem to be all opinion and little substance. A nice breath of fresh air!

Duana, today I heard Dr. Helen Fisher on XMRadio. I have a strong feeling that in the near future I am going to be hearing YOUR voice! Keep up the great work, I LOVE reading this info. I can totally relate, too...and I think you know what I mean!

Dear Dr. Duana,

You are amazingly insightful and your well-honed manalysis is profound. Properly seasoned with a superb sense of humor, the “Love Science” column is guaranteed to entice men to heed your RX (on an unconscious level, sort of like a dog whistle.) You are sheer genius and I wish I knew then what I know now!

Thanks for all of your knowledgeable and witty insights, Duana! I've already sent a link to your column to several friends of mine whom I think would enjoy it. I look forward to reading future topics and sending those on along as well. Keep them coming! By the way, thanks for turning me on to Gottman. His books are very helpful for anyone needing simple and easy to understand advice for improving their relationships.

Duana, I think what you do is outstanding. It is a great blend of fact mixed in with rationale, experience and intuition. I love it! No matter what I am reading I appreciate a perspective that has some latitude as well as depth to help me find my place in that without feeling boxed in or excluded. Thank you!

Doc Welch has created a nifty column about Love Science. I must admit that this kind of undertaking is quite challenging since love is a wondrous and mysterious emotion that we humans partake in whether we want to or not. Thank you Doc Welch for asking the hard and fun questions about love and giving it some scientific meaning and value and yet keeping love's personally intimate nature intact. Can't wait to read and comment on the next topic! YGG!

With the pleasure of having had Dr. Welch as my social psychology professor I came to appreciate her no-nonsense approach firsthand. Her column has served as an invaluable resource in my own relationship as well as inspiration for my future studies and work in psychology. I believe you will find that her opinion is infused in her advice, and that her opinion is aligned with well documented evidence based upon empirical research as opposed to purely subjective life observations. Reading Love Science breathes fresh hope into growing intimacy in our relationships without the fear of tripping over our own feet.

Thank you for the beautiful work Duana. Keep it up!

I really respect your approach to the science of relationships. I appreciate that it is not a matter of opinion, but simply what research has shown. I find your advice and information invaluable. I look forward to each new column you publish.

Duana has a knack for choosing useful topics which also spark debate because one can see the same issue from different angles. With an engaging writing style, she sets forth the research and spurs discussion. Thanks to Duana for applying her craft for both our benefit and our entertainment!

Duana, I enjoy reading and discussing your well-informed articles. I don't have the background that you do; but I've been married for 20 yrs and often times, life gives us a great education. Marriage and relationship is one area that we are literally "thrown to the wolves". It's ironic that one of the most important decisions of our lives is one that we are the least prepared for. Please keep the insightful articles coming. If these subjects can speak to even one couple and help them, then Love Science is a hit in my opinion!!

I have enjoyed reading the material Dr Welch writes. I have known Dr Welch since High School.. She will always be my favorite author and a close friend.. Thanks..

Rob C.

Duana, I wish you continued success with your timely column. As you know, you've truly given me a whole new perspective on relationship issues. I look forward to reading your column.

Duana, I just love the way that you write and see things --oftentimes similar to me, but sometimes not, and always adding that missing dimension ... clarity.... turn of the phrase... whatever it is that makes it all click. So often your input has taken me to the next level of understanding --it's so refreshing, but also difficult to articulate. I love that you've created a source of relationship advice that is grounded in data, but delivered with wit and warmth in plain English. =)